Valentine Day Expectations– Online 'dating'. . .?
I’m a 33-year-old, heterosexual male who is single:
I am a subscribed/paid membership, totaling to at l e a s t 0.00 per month, to the following Internet ‘dating’ sites to “ ‘find’/‘look’/‘seek’ for a ‘love’ mate and experience mutual ‘love’ with this person”:
1. Yahoo.com
2. Match.com
3. True.com
4. Eharmony.com
5. Chemistry.com
6. FriendFinder.com
7. Passion.com
8. BigChurch.com
9. MySpace.com
I place/post photo(s) of myself on my personal ad/profile for each of the websites listed above.
After I read the match’s personal ad/profile, I write and send a different email to each ‘match’ for initiating contact with peer-aged match (the woman or women).
However, I constantly experience that the ‘matched’ person(s)— the peer-aged women–; regardless of race/ethnicity, regardless of her photo or none on her personal ad/profile; that the peer-aged Women do selectively eliminate me– they do n o t reply to any of my email(s) I sent– as potentially being her either platonic friend or amorous/romantic partner based upon h e r preference selection of "Her Ideal Person’s" traits, such as:
1) Height,
2) Race/ethnicity
3) ‘Body type’, and
4) Income/Occupation.
A. What is going on with the Online Internet ‘Dating’/"Personal Ad" craze/fad or ‘thing’– "Woman seeks Man"/"Man
seeks Woman"? ? ?
B. Where are the real Woman; n o t the Woman who are fake/’flakes’ or n o t those that are " teasers of
written/worded Personal Ads/Profiles, photos, and such)” ? ? ?
C. What is this: “Popularity Contest”, “Flauntiest Teasing”, “Flirtatious but Fickleness/Finickiest” of these
heterosexual peer-aged people; both men and women; with the Internet/Online Dating Website trend or
‘craze’/‘fad’? ? ?
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Filed under: Online Dating Chemistry
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I was "temporarily" divorced during 2004. Yes we are back together. During that time, I tried the internet dating thing. I had bad luck. For one thing, the guys on there outnumber the girls by about 10 to 1. The gals I did actually meet were career bound or had a lot of baggage or both. The last one I dated almost worked me to death. I’m not saying internet dating doesn’t work for everyone, because many people meet this way. It just didn’t work for me. I still think some of the gals on there are legit, but you don’t know which ones. I got the impression that many are looking for someone they think is rich and stupid. When you do meet someone, get to know them for a good long time before making any hasty decisions.
You really do not need to be spending so much money on all those sites. Just pick one and try it out.
I think if you keep at it (in only one of the sites) you might find one person you like you just need to be patient. I would also not give up on trying to find a person on your own. Try joinng social groups (like fitness centers, book clubs, etc) to see if you can meet someone special.