Some people say that online relationship statuses are no big deal, while others agree that they are (or should be) accurate indicators. I am 50/50 on this and need help…

My current bf and I have been in love with each other for the past year & a half but due to circumstance, couldn’t really date at the time (we live really far and didn’t want to complicate things). But we still talked EVERY day, told each other we loved each other, made plans to see each other, sent each other gifts, didn’t see other people, etc etc.

He came to visit me last month & we had an AMAZING time together, better than expected, and decided we could definitely make it work as a couple, since we were basically "acting" like one anyway (I mean, the feelings are there!) We mutually agreed to be EXCLUSIVE to each other (like we were anyway) and use the term "bf" & "gf" w/ each other.

I’m not "insecure" about our relationship BUT it IS long distance (I mean, really long… I’m in Miami, he’s in the UK..) so it’s harder. His myspace/facebook status still says "single" and he uses those sites EVERY DAY- in fact, that’s how we met!

There are also no pics of us together & he actually told me to "please not tag him in any photos" b/c it’d be weird if his mom found out through that, that we were together, since she has facebook. (He’s 26.) Riiight.

There are also a few flirty comments from a girl on his myspace that are recent which he’s replied to (though he hasn’t said much.. who knows how else they could be communicating..?)

I asked him to change it about 3-ish weeks ago. He said it just slipped his mind, but he’d do it the nect time he got on. He’s been on since & still hasn’t changed it, although there are other updates on his page. So what the hell.

I didn’t think I had much to worry about since while he was here, he introduced me to his friends & his brother. Plus he talks about getting married-seriously- and even moving here to be with me ALL the time. We’ve been in contact for so long & he spent so much $$ to come see me, we didn’t even have sex while he was here! So IF he’s lying, why? He’s not getting anything out of it… Should I bring it up again? & how?

P.S.- if myspace is "no big deal" then what IS the big deal? Why doesn’t he just change it instead of hiding it? Thanks!

Alright. Me and my ex had a great little romance for two weeks last summer. His name was Cameron. Were also both in high school. Anyway, what happened was he was trying to kiss me for the first time and I wasnt feeling it. I said "Maybe when it feels right" and then He left walking away……embarrased. He ignored me. And when I tried to get him back he also ignored me. Turns out, he found another girl. Another girl who WOULD kiss him. Anyway, he still had feelings for me because a month later he called my brother freaking out. Wondering if I was dating this guy……Billy Mahoney. Now, my ex knew that I had a big crush on him and when I put on my Facebook that I was in a relationship I guess he saw that and ASSUMED that I was dating Billy Mahoney. Anyway, I messaged my ex and said "why do you care who Im dating" and He said "I dont my friends wanted to know" and in a nutshell I said "bullshit, youre a short and ugly and an asshole" then he said in a nutshell "wow. Ive hit puberty and youre the one whos ugly etc etc etc" and it was just a nasty ugly stupid fight. And in the end, my ex said "and my friends just wanted to know so they could make fun of billy for dating YOU" So, we were in a huge fight for about 3 months. Talking shit about each other in school. Glaring at one and other. All of that silly stuff. But, then something happend. We just stopped being angry with each other. I knew for a fact he still cared about me. He would alway look at me from the corner of his eyes in hallways and I knew he still cared. Then we started being more friendly. And he started riding his bike near my house and staring at me and laughing at my dumb jokes. He started paying attention to me. Well, flashfoward……LAST WEEK. So, now we had been talking more and more and he made it completely obviousis he was into me. And he I told him how his ex gf was in love with him and he said something like "well too bad for her" and I messaged him on Facebook telling him to not to make fun of his ex gf since she was still in love with him and he said "haha ok but what about u huh…lets get together huh" and I said "haha oh yeah" and he said "no seriously lets get togher" and I said "well we shoud do something about this" and he said "U should come over" But I wasnt allowed. So, he came over my house the next day and we made out and had a good time and he ALSO ADMITTED TO LYING ABOUT THE WHOLE BILLY MAHONEY THING. It was a great reuniting. For about a week it was great. We madeout all the time and there was a lot of chemistry between us. But then, the day before spring break….I did something wrong. I started flirting with Billy Mahoney. I flirted with him the WHOLE BUS RIDE. I payed no attention to Cameron. It was truly an accident. Well, I messged Cameron and I told him I was grounded and couldnt hang out and he IGNORED ME. I couldnt belive it. Then the next day I said "Do you not want to hang out today because I totally could" and he said "Im not home and my phone was dead so chill Im not mad and my parents are home" and I said "ohhhh I see" and he said "ya" and tht was pretty much the end of that little conversation. I messaged him again a day later asking if he wanted to come over. NO REPLY. So, now its been two days and I havent tried to talking to him. I just dont know what to do. The only reason I can think of this sudden period of ignoring me is because I flirted with Billy on the bus. I also know for a fact that Cameron admires Billy. I can just tell. But guys please help me….WHAT SHOULD I DO? AND WHY DO YOU THINK HE IS IGNORING ME?

Ok to make a long story short, I signed up on a dating site a few months ago. Not because I am ugly or desperate, etc. It’s because I live in a small town & it is very hard to meet new people. Anyway, I have been talking online (and now have phone number) to a guy for about a week now. He only lives a couple hrs away. We’re hoping to meet up in a week or two to see the chemistry (how we interact, if we’re attracted etc). I will meet in public place & bring my brother along.

Now heres the question: If we hit it off in person too, how much should we hang out before we start a relationship? I just need opinions on this, I don’t know when is too soon. I dont want to scare him off. Guys what do you think of this? If I fall for him completely i just dont want him to get away lol. Should I just let him take the lead? Im just trying to be prepared for this & figure it out..Any insight/tips on this is appreciated!

Okay here’s the deal. My brother friend is interested in me, and im interested in him. But because of this "dumb" male code we can’t really date. Unless of course he gives us "Permission". So long story how do i get my brother to approve of us dating. We’re all around the same age. He’s not a bad guy. I just need to know what to say to my brother.

ok well our family has 2 accounts, 1 for me and 1 fore my brother. my brothers account works absolutely fine when playing online on madden 08 but for my account, its a different story.

when i click on "online" and then "quick match" it says "sorry, but you are not old enough to access online content". i have checked EVERYTHING, i have gone onto my account and change my birth date so i am old enough but it doesn’t work. i have made everything the same as my brothers account but it still doesn’t work.

any advice? plz help

btw, i HAVE checked all my account info. i have been using my brothers account to play but i want to use mine

PART I
Alright. Me and my ex had a great little romance for two weeks last summer. His name was Cameron. Were also both in high school. Anyway, what happened was he was trying to kiss me for the first time and I wasnt feeling it. I said "Maybe when it feels right" and then He left walking away……embarrased. He ignored me. And when I tried to get him back he also ignored me. Turns out, he found another girl. Another girl who WOULD kiss him. Anyway, he still had feelings for me because a month later he called my brother freaking out. Wondering if I was dating this guy……Billy Mahoney. Now, my ex knew that I had a big crush on him and when I put on my Facebook that I was in a relationship I guess he saw that and ASSUMED that I was dating Billy Mahoney.

PART II
Anyway, I messaged my ex and said "why do you care who Im dating" and He said "I dont my friends wanted to know" and in a nutshell I said "bullshit, youre a short and ugly and an asshole" then he said in a nutshell "wow. Ive hit puberty and youre the one whos ugly etc etc etc" and it was just a nasty ugly stupid fight. And in the end, my ex said "and my friends just wanted to know so they could make fun of billy for dating YOU" So, we were in a huge fight for about 3 months. Talking **** about each other in school. Glaring at one and other. All of that silly stuff. But, then something happend. We just stopped being angry with each other. I knew for a fact he still cared about me. He would alway look at me from the corner of his eyes in hallways and I knew he still cared. Then we started being more friendly. And he started riding his bike near my house and staring at me and laughing at my dumb jokes. He started paying attention to me.

PART III
Well, flashfoward…..LAST WEEK. So, now we had been talking more and more and he made it completely obviousis he was into me. And he I told him how his ex gf was in love with him and he said something like "well too bad for her" and I messaged him on Facebook telling him to not to make fun of his ex gf since she was still in love with him and he said "haha ok but what about u huh…lets get together huh" and I said "haha oh yeah" and he said "no seriously lets get togher" and I said "well we shoud do something about this" and he said "U should come over" But I wasnt allowed. So, he came over my house the next day and we made out and had a good time and he ALSO ADMITTED TO LYING ABOUT THE WHOLE BILLY MAHONEY THING. It was a great reuniting. For about a week it was great. We madeout all the time and there was a lot of chemistry between us. But then, the day before spring break….I did something wrong. I started flirting with Billy Mahoney. I flirted with him the WHOLE BUS RIDE. I payed no attention to Cameron. It was truly an accident. Well, I messged Cameron and I told him I was grounded and couldnt hang out and he IGNORED ME. I couldnt belive it. Then the next day I said "Do you not want to hang out today because I totally could" and he said "Im not home and my phone was dead so chill Im not mad and my parents are home" and I said "ohhhh I see" and he said "ya" and tht was pretty much the end of that little conversation. I messaged him again a day later asking if he wanted to come over. NO REPLY. So, now its been two days and I havent tried to talking to him. I just dont know what to do. The only reason I can think of this sudden period of ignoring me is because I flirted with Billy on the bus. I also know for a fact that Cameron admires Billy. I can just tell. But guys please help me….WHAT SHOULD I DO? AND WHY DO YOU THINK HE IS IGNORING ME?

I’m a newbie in L.A. A few months ago, I’ve done some sexual stuff online with a guy whom I thought was single. We’ve never met. Later on, it turned out he was actually married but it’s an open marriage. I immedeately did end the things after I learned the truth.

The thing is, we work in the same industry and all our friends are mutual. Including the guys I want to date. In fact, one of them is his brother. I would never think that option but seeing people have "open marriages", date their best friends’s exes in Hollywood make me think "Why not?"

What do you think? How is dating life going in Los(t) Angeles?
No I’m not in porn industry. People are insane in LA