I signed up for an online dating service and put my location as a place I don’t live but will be relocating soon. I just wanted to do a little research, you know like apartment hunting…lol. Well, when I did my first search a guy I have already met & went on a date with popped up as a match. Although we are still in touch, vaguely, somewhere along the way I blew it with this guy. So I’m not sure if I should mention our "match" next time we speak. I am suppose to visit the area this weekend & might see him if he is free. I don’t want him to think I’m stalking him and I was really surprised he appeared as a match since I didn’t even know he was on the site. Would you say something?
Oh yeah, we matched in everyway except for age. He is looking for someone younger. btw, I look much younger than I am & I have never told him my age ’cause he never asked.

So, i recently signed up on a dating website and as i was browsing my so called "matches" i came across one particular girl who i found to be both interesting and attractive. She lives near me and is around my age. I couldn’t contact her from the website since i didn’t have a paid for account, but she had her e-mail left on her profile so i e-mailed her the other day telling her that i saw her on the dating website and i wanted to chat with her. She responded about a day later asking me if i had Facebook, so i e-mailed her back with a link to my Facebook profile and told her to add me and we could message each other on FB. That was yesterday. It’s been a day now and i have yet to get a reply or a friend request. I’m afraid she may have went on my profile but decided not to add me because i wasn’t "attractive" or something. I’m hoping she just hasn’t read the e-mail yet, but i know she’s already been online since i sent that e-mail. I feel a mixture of paranoia, anger and hurt right now. I was really hoping to get to know this girl, but not if she’s shallow and won’t even give me a chance.. I feel like e-mailing her again telling her off. But I’m gonna give it a couple more days in case she really hasn’t checked her e-mail yet. This isn’t the first time I’ve hit someone up and got shot down, and this keeps happening i feel pissed off and hopeless. What should i do? Why are all the women i find attractive (that doesn’t necessarily mean physical appearance) too stuck up and superficial to even talk to me? Ugh. I’m 17.
Stupid how? Elaborate on that. I hear people say that all the time yet they never have a logical response behind the sh*t that comes out their mouth. And i’m homeschooling, what the f*ck do you expect?

So, i recently signed up on a dating website and as i was browsing my so called "matches" i came across one particular girl who i found to be both interesting and attractive. She lives near me and is around my age. I couldn’t contact her from the website since i didn’t have a paid for account, but she had her e-mail left on her profile so i e-mailed her the other day telling her that i saw her on the dating website and i wanted to chat with her. She responded about a day later asking me if i had Facebook, so i e-mailed her back with a link to my Facebook profile and told her to add me and we could message each other on FB. That was yesterday. It’s been a day now and i have yet to get a reply or a friend request. I’m afraid she may have went on my profile but decided not to add me because i wasn’t "attractive" or something. I’m hoping she just hasn’t read the e-mail yet, but i know she’s already been online since i sent that e-mail. I feel a mixture of paranoia, anger and hurt right now. I was really hoping to get to know this girl, but not if she’s shallow and won’t even give me a chance.. I feel like e-mailing her again telling her off. But I’m gonna give it a couple more days in case she really hasn’t checked her e-mail yet. This isn’t the first time I’ve hit someone up and got shot down, and this keeps happening i feel pissed off and hopeless. What should i do? Why are all the women i find attractive (that doesn’t necessarily mean physical appearance) too stuck up and shallow to even talk to me? Ugh. I’m 17.

I only have one bill which is last months. I’m trying to use the bill date that’s on the bill but they it keeps telling me "Bill dates do not match" If I have not received another bill what am I supposed to do? How am I supposed to know what bill date to use? Any suggestions, other than calling the place? Thanks!

But apparently inspite of my qualities… i still dont have a girl… and girls just wont pass my physical flaw which is i’m small, 5’0, and not attractive.

Good qualities in me:
* I have a great personality, I never had problems having friends (guys).
* people always approach me if they got problems, they feel comfortable with me
* i dont boast
* i dont lie
* i’m honest
* i’m down to earth
* i have a stable job, and i earn 85k per year
* i’m single with 0 debt in bank
* i rent my own apartment
* i drive a 2004 bmw 5 series
* i’m very understanding

inspite of all these, my physical appearance blocks women heads on.

i tried online dating and even paid subscription but never worked. i e-mail around 150 women only 6 responded with message "thank you,but we’re not a good match"

i tried clubbing, but girls dont even give me a second to show them who i am, i get rejected on the same second i approach them.

i dont know what to do.. i know i’m ideal,but m not.

Why am I dwelling on this man – did he manipulate me?
We are in our 30′s. Met this man online. We had a mutual friend- who is married to his cousin after we connected on FBook. I have a thing for charming, confident, good-looking kinda arrogant men. But, I look at their heart and know there is more to it then looks. I am in a vulnerable stage- laid off etc. Online, he said he is financially stable and needs a good woman. That’s me. Ok, so first date – he asks me for coffee – then says just stop by my house – no worries u know we have a mutual friend. So, me being so attracted to him, on phone and pictures….Im also not going to let him sleep with me- just thought he would be nice. I go to his house- bad move. …he shows me his conv. mercedes on the tour- then says Im beautiful,his type, he wants to settle down- blowing me all this stuff i want to hear- he then goes in and tries to kiss me and was sexually all on me- I liked him, but im not giving up a piece of a–s first date. So red flag- after i kissed him..I was like wow….started to stop he says oh u can leave if ur not into this. Ok, second date -he says i want to take u out- for sushi on a real date- but he ends up coming over. I told him not looking for one night stand- he says no we look good together, ur beautiful go with your gut- if u like me let me in…kinda making me feel badly about myself. ….then we fool around – I have huge breasts and I feel he is using me – so I put back on my bra…he said if u were my girl-thats what u do? I was drinking with him – buzzed had a strong backbone and said no- u haven’t taken me out- u jus want one thing..he left my house. He blocked me on fbook, and myspace. Then i asked my old friend I haven’t talked to in yrs who is married to his cousin about his story- she said oh he is my husbands cousin- he is smart, good looking and charming. This guy wants nothing to do with me after I spoke up? Plus he told me he is extending his trip to NY- so he could see me – now he text me "we are not a match" we are 2 diff ppl. Why was he so gung ho on me, im beautiful, his type, we look good together- blowing smoke up my ? I feel so lame. His looks, money, charm and he is smart..makes me feel like i did somthing wrong? help?
an old gfriend of mine…her husband is his 3rd cousin- she said oh he is sweet, good looking and charming. I really fell for him. We did look cute together. I was attracted to him. But he got mad at me after I put my bra on – we started to argue- he left my house..and text me we are not compatible…we are 2 diff ppl. why would he say that- i barely knew hiM?? i liked him…
why did my friend (who I barely know well acquaintance) say he is sweet, charming and good looking. Is it uh- because her husband is related him- the guy who is treating me like dirt. She probably wants to protect him…or doesn’t know right?
Sorry guys! He also told me he was extending his trip to NY- so he can be with me. If we click well he promised- he will get me a ticket and go to his trip to St. Tropez. He also blocked me on fbook and myspace- like i was crzy- why did he react like that?

ok well our family has 2 accounts, 1 for me and 1 fore my brother. my brothers account works absolutely fine when playing online on madden 08 but for my account, its a different story.

when i click on "online" and then "quick match" it says "sorry, but you are not old enough to access online content". i have checked EVERYTHING, i have gone onto my account and change my birth date so i am old enough but it doesn’t work. i have made everything the same as my brothers account but it still doesn’t work.

any advice? plz help

btw, i HAVE checked all my account info. i have been using my brothers account to play but i want to use mine

An arrest was reported on my background check for employment. It is true that I was arrested nearly two and a half years ago for a dui, which is what the report shows. However, it is inaccurate that the status of the case is waived, which is what the report shows. This gives the false impression that I am in the process of being sentenced.

In fact, the status of the case that they used for their information is from the preliminary hearing at the magisterial level, shortly after my arrest in 2007. The online document clearly shows the case disposition (dated 1/2008) as waived, and the status of the case as adjudicated, or closed, because it was waived at that time to the court of common pleas. In case anybody hasn’t noticed, this is 2010. Does it take two years to go to court for a dui? In any state?

At the courthouse level there is no record of my case. It was expunged after successful completion of ARD. For some reason, there is a glitch in the system, which I am currently in the process of trying to get corrected, so that this information is no longer available for public consumption and misinformation.

The second error is a "possible match". It’s someone who shares my first name only, shares my birth date, and lives in a state I have not visited since I was an infant. I hardly think I could have been capable of doing anything criminal when I was 11 months old.

I am 99% positive that this purveyor of misinformation (aka, the credit reporting agency — now there’s a possible match!) did not use the social security number that I provided to fact check my criminal history before releasing said misinformation to my possibly soon to be ex-potential employer.

How do I dispute these? I’m not sure that I want to forward a copy of my court order for release, dismissal and expungement (for privacy reasons) to a company that is so careless about the information they distribute, all the while including a disclaimer about it’s reliability and accuracy, and at the same time denying any responsibility for said unreliable and inaccurate information. If I performed that poorly at my job, I would have been fired a long time ago!

Is it up to me to prove that the information on my background check is inaccurate and incomplete, or is it up to the credit reporting agency?

If so, how do how "prove" that I am not the complete stranger that they are suggesting that I am?

I am trying to play FIFA 08 online but everytime i try its saying that my version is out of date and that i need to install a patch.i downloaded the patch and tried to install it but it is saying ""Old file not found.However, a file of the same name was found.No update done since file contents do not match."" …could anybody help me out……… and plz give me the answer step by step……

But apparently inspite of my qualities… i still dont have a girl… and girls just wont pass my physical flaw which is i’m small, 5’0, and not attractive.

Good qualities in me:
* I have a great personality, I never had problems having friends (guys).
* people always approach me if they got problems, they feel comfortable with me
* i dont boast
* i dont lie
* i’m honest
* i’m down to earth
* i have a stable job, and i earn 85k per year
* i’m single with 0 debt in bank
* i rent my own apartment
* i drive a 2004 bmw 5 series
* i’m very understanding

inspite of all these, my physical appearance blocks women heads on.

i tried online dating and even paid subscription but never worked. i e-mail around 150 women only 6 responded with message "thank you,but we’re not a good match"

i tried clubbing, but girls dont even give me a second to show them who i am, i get rejected on the same second i approach them.

i dont know what to do.. i myt think i’m ideal, but i’m not.

Well i’m about to turn 24 and I’m seriously wondering if i’m just not attractive enough to get a girlfriend. Heck, I’ve never even kissed a girl!

My experiences with women in real life has been similar to my experience with online dating. I decided to try eHarmony.com. For those that aren’t aware, the eHarmony system matches people based on personality tests. The system will periodically send you new "matches" and you can either "close" the match or attempt to communicate. Most girls opted to "close" communication with me after the system matches us. They "closed" me without any contact between us! They just saw my profile & pictures and decided they didn’t like me.

A small number of girls did initiate communication with me. Each of these girls fell into one of these two categories: a) cute, but probbaly found somebody else they preferred and eventually stopped talking to me b) Very overweight and I didnt respond.
I’d really like to know whether or not i’m too ugly to get a girlfriend. I’ve grown acustomed to being by myself and i’d like to know if it’ll be possible for me to get a girlfriend. If it isnt, then i can just forget about it… If you’d like to see my pictures, my SN on yahoo messenger is magnificent_bumba

yahoo SN = magnificent_bumba

Well i’m about to turn 24 and I’m seriously wondering if i’m just not attractive enough to get a girlfriend. Heck, I’ve never even kissed a girl!

My experiences with women in real life has been similar to my experience with online dating. I decided to try eHarmony.com. For those that aren’t aware, the eHarmony system matches people based on personality tests. The system will periodically send you new "matches" and you can either "close" the match or attempt to communicate. Most girls opted to "close" communication with me after the system matches us. They "closed" me without any contact between us! They just saw my profile & pictures and decided they didn’t like me.

A small number of girls did initiate communication with me. Each of these girls probbaly found somebody else they preferred and eventually stopped talking to me.
I’d really like to know whether or not i’m too ugly to get a girlfriend. I’ve grown acustomed to being by myself and i’d like to know if it’ll be possible for me to get a girlfriend. If it isnt, then i can just forget about it… If you’d like to see my pictures, my SN on yahoo messenger is magnificent_bumba

yahoo SN = magnificent_bumba

I’m a 25 year-old introverted female who works in a different town every week. I joined an online dating service with "profile-matching" to ensure compatibility with someone. Lo and behold, they came through—he is amazing. I flew to see him, things went great, he told me he had a great time, too. However, he didn’t call me until 4 days after I’d gotten home from visiting him (after he’d told me to call and tell him if I’d "gotten in safely" and then didn’t answer) And that will have been a week ago tomorrow. What gives? A little background info that keeps me hoping: (1) he is a doctor in residency working crazy thirty-something hour shifts every other day (2) he just found out (since we’ve met) that his mom has a tumor (his dad is dead) and he may be worried about her and (3) he’s training to be a psychiatrist and seems wary about my commitment/responsibility issues. But he was SO communicative before and now he hasn’t even responded to an e-mail I sent a week ago about his mom

I recently learned that my (38 year old) boyfriend of 11 months (I’m 31), while he has made his online account inactive, he still occasionally clicks on the automatic emails that he receives and views the profiles of his "matches". He says he is not "looking", but he just looks at matches because he is curious. Am I insane, or is that not the definition of looking ? He said he will stop. I think this is completely inappropriate behavior, and I don’t know what to do.
Re. active / inactive account – it’s a match account. His profile is turned off, so it’s not sent to others, and it is not searchable. He has not renewed the account. Therefore, it is inactive. However, with such an account, they still send you your weekly matches to your email account, unless you go on there and specifically set it not to – it’s really tricky to figure out how to set it that way. I know, because I did it with my own. Match.com makes it difficult on purpose, hoping to get your business back.
And, no, I was not spying on him or reading his emails. I asked him and he said he does still check the profiles of his matches that are sent to him.

Just wondering on the different views out there.Here is mine,what a load of CRAP!!! I’ve been single for a while and thought I’d try it just to see what happens.What a joke! They will match you all right,with someone 250 miles away,even after you put your distance willing to travel.Most "matches" DON’T match your criteria.Never again!!!