I signed up for an online dating service and put my location as a place I don’t live but will be relocating soon. I just wanted to do a little research, you know like apartment hunting…lol. Well, when I did my first search a guy I have already met & went on a date with popped up as a match. Although we are still in touch, vaguely, somewhere along the way I blew it with this guy. So I’m not sure if I should mention our "match" next time we speak. I am suppose to visit the area this weekend & might see him if he is free. I don’t want him to think I’m stalking him and I was really surprised he appeared as a match since I didn’t even know he was on the site. Would you say something?
Oh yeah, we matched in everyway except for age. He is looking for someone younger. btw, I look much younger than I am & I have never told him my age ’cause he never asked.

Looking for a good value!

I’ve read around the internet a bit and you can find alot of horror stories about billing and "free trials" that turn out to just screw you.

It just seems spending /mo on *trying* to find love is rather steep. Especially if you spend a year and don’t find it!

The three I’m considering are:
Match.com
Chemistry.com
eHarmony.com

Open to suggestions and presonal experiences. Your chance to save a person from wandering downt he wrong path.

important than just high school transcripts?

When meeting someone for the first time, how many dates does it take you to figure out if you really like them or not? Is the chemistry there or not there right away?

Well heres the story 5 years ago i moved to France.
I went on facebook a 2 months ago and my friend (who lives in England) basically introduced me to her ex, Matthew and omg he is great and i feel we get on really well although he lives in England…
(btw hes 17 im 15) see after 1 month of being a "couple" i visted England for 1 day to see my best friend whom i havnt seen in ages but didnt see him as i was only there for 1 day and he lives miles away from where i was visiting but he of course asks why i didnt come see him and whilst i tried to explain he cut me off…, his facebook profile and said "single"! so I asked my friend to talk to him then, 2 days later i go on facebook again and apparently their dating again some talk they had..?!

He keeps messaging me "why arnt you talking to me x " , " please talk to me im sorry" all while "dating" Her….
I have had online relationships before but they where never like this!
Sorry i typed alot i got caught in the moment of being mad >.<
thankies xx

have discovered great chemistry on the phone with a potential mate. We communicate and enjoy hours of conversation on various topics, spiritually, emotionally we connect, even as far as future goals, we have similar beliefs…Our personalities gel quite nicely…the dilemma is…he has seen several photos of me in different environments, I asked and received more photos of him, as hard as I try I am not physically attracted, yet the connection in other areas are superb…what should I do? We have not met face to face since we engaged in communicating, for almost six weeks …..by the way I have asked this request on several occasions and timing hasn’t allowed on his part due to business committments, he travels alot and is an enterprenuer with varied interests, contacts and networks….my dilemma, continue until we meet face to face and see if there is chemistry or kick him to the curb now, and not waste any more time?

So, i recently signed up on a dating website and as i was browsing my so called "matches" i came across one particular girl who i found to be both interesting and attractive. She lives near me and is around my age. I couldn’t contact her from the website since i didn’t have a paid for account, but she had her e-mail left on her profile so i e-mailed her the other day telling her that i saw her on the dating website and i wanted to chat with her. She responded about a day later asking me if i had Facebook, so i e-mailed her back with a link to my Facebook profile and told her to add me and we could message each other on FB. That was yesterday. It’s been a day now and i have yet to get a reply or a friend request. I’m afraid she may have went on my profile but decided not to add me because i wasn’t "attractive" or something. I’m hoping she just hasn’t read the e-mail yet, but i know she’s already been online since i sent that e-mail. I feel a mixture of paranoia, anger and hurt right now. I was really hoping to get to know this girl, but not if she’s shallow and won’t even give me a chance.. I feel like e-mailing her again telling her off. But I’m gonna give it a couple more days in case she really hasn’t checked her e-mail yet. This isn’t the first time I’ve hit someone up and got shot down, and this keeps happening i feel pissed off and hopeless. What should i do? Why are all the women i find attractive (that doesn’t necessarily mean physical appearance) too stuck up and superficial to even talk to me? Ugh. I’m 17.
Stupid how? Elaborate on that. I hear people say that all the time yet they never have a logical response behind the sh*t that comes out their mouth. And i’m homeschooling, what the f*ck do you expect?

I know that "plenty of fish" is free but the people on there are ridiculous. What site, in your opinion, has the best representation of people out there. I am guessing eHarmony is probably too expensive for most people… so maybe Match, or Chemistry, or… who knows?

So, i recently signed up on a dating website and as i was browsing my so called "matches" i came across one particular girl who i found to be both interesting and attractive. She lives near me and is around my age. I couldn’t contact her from the website since i didn’t have a paid for account, but she had her e-mail left on her profile so i e-mailed her the other day telling her that i saw her on the dating website and i wanted to chat with her. She responded about a day later asking me if i had Facebook, so i e-mailed her back with a link to my Facebook profile and told her to add me and we could message each other on FB. That was yesterday. It’s been a day now and i have yet to get a reply or a friend request. I’m afraid she may have went on my profile but decided not to add me because i wasn’t "attractive" or something. I’m hoping she just hasn’t read the e-mail yet, but i know she’s already been online since i sent that e-mail. I feel a mixture of paranoia, anger and hurt right now. I was really hoping to get to know this girl, but not if she’s shallow and won’t even give me a chance.. I feel like e-mailing her again telling her off. But I’m gonna give it a couple more days in case she really hasn’t checked her e-mail yet. This isn’t the first time I’ve hit someone up and got shot down, and this keeps happening i feel pissed off and hopeless. What should i do? Why are all the women i find attractive (that doesn’t necessarily mean physical appearance) too stuck up and shallow to even talk to me? Ugh. I’m 17.

I had an ad on a personals site and was doing some searching like always, and this girl leaves a message. We typed a lot in messages and, later, on IM’s and had some things in common (so I made my profile hidden)…but I already had my sights set on a girl on myspace that I first msg’d 6 months ago but is now showing "single" when she wasn’t before. The myspace girl definitely had something I was looking for physically while the other girl I couldn’t be too sure of due to her pics…so I decided to take her off my IM buddy list and pursue the other girl. The myspace girl txt’d me A LOT, and I said I was going to ask her out on the second date (to make it official)…but I did a lot of thinking after the first date, and she just didn’t seem too intelligent to me (I have a bachelor’s from UNLV, so I’m a little picky when it comes to smarts)…but boy was she endowed. I went ahead and paid for everything on the second date as I did on the first, but at the end of the night, I explained that we just weren’t compatible mentally and proceeded to drive her home after we were all finished eating. I noticed she put "feeling rejected" on her myspace, and I felt bad…but at least I was straightforward and honest with her…and she didn’t look as physically attractive to me anymore. The other girl IM’d me outta nowhere after, like, almost a month of not talking to her, and after chatting awhile, I just decided to throw it out there and asked if she wanted to go out and eat sometime. She was totally down, so we went out…and wow, I was surprised…she was packed, too, AND had brains. I added her back to my IM buddy list, and she had given me her number, so I had been txt’ing her every now and then but not too much since I didn’t want to seem desperate.

This is where it starts. I txt’d her if she was still down for going out (second date), and she txt’d back she definitely was. She didn’t give me a time, but I txt’d to just txt me back or call back and let me know. I was sleeping and she woke me up to talk about when to meet up. We did, and it went well. As I walked her to her car, she mentioned we should do this again. She had a paper to write for school, and I said I would be online (in case she got done and wanted to chat a little). I txt’d her that I had to go to the gym and would bbl in case she got online while I was out of the house. She then txts me she just finished her paper, I respond, and that was it. The next night, I txt’d if she was cramming for a test and what she wanted to do next weekend. She said she already planning on visiting her family in her hometown and that we could do something the weekend after…and that was the last time I contacted her (so as not to seem desperate).

I initiated contact right before the second date, said I would be online afterwards, and initiated contact regarding a third…so now, in my mind, the ball is in her court. She msg’d me first on the personals site and IM’d me like crazy before I took her off my buddy list (she didn’t know I did), and even tho I lapsed for awhile, I had been txt’ing/IM’ing her a lot, so now she should initiate contact w/ me this time to let me know she’s still interested and that it’s mutual (I’ve already shown that I am). She’s on the personals site everyday but looking for "friends" not "dating"…and I found her on myspace (private profile) which I noticed she checks everyday. I’ve seen her on IM at times, but she doesn’t even IM to say "hi"…or txt…or call/leave voicemail. She goes to school fulltime and works fulltime, but I am not giving-in…she either makes the next contact, or I’m moving on. It’s been a week; what does this mean? Is she really that busy? Is she looking to date other guys? Is she keeping tabs on me and making sure I don’t put my profile up on the personals site or go on myspace to "supposedly" check messages (she knows my myspace)? Is she not as attracted anymore since the chase is over? Is she waiting for me to make the next contact when she should know I’ve done it the last three times and have clearly shown I’m interested? I know it’s only been a week, and I really shouldn’t be tripping…but what does this mean?

Which Better Dating Online Or Girlfriends.

Ive checked out a few dating sites but have not payed yet and want to chose the best site before making any real move. I am looking for the best date site that give out the most matches, according to number of matches, accuracy of chemistry of matches and the over all site, that is easily to navigate. I been to a few sites like yahoo personals, christian mingles and eharmony. I got to say I like all three sites the only thing is eharmony gives out few matches it seems like and you can only see the pics if you pay and the other sites are great but are they worth the money? I am 28/m and I am looking for site geared towards finding some one around my age. Any suggestions?

I only have one bill which is last months. I’m trying to use the bill date that’s on the bill but they it keeps telling me "Bill dates do not match" If I have not received another bill what am I supposed to do? How am I supposed to know what bill date to use? Any suggestions, other than calling the place? Thanks!

Been several good ones over the years but I doubt anyone could view the biography of Andre (the Giant) Roussimoff without being deeply moved. I give it top marks.