Me and the girl have been friends for 5 years and really good friends for 2 years. I asked her to the dance and she asked for some time to think about it. The next day she said she would go with me but could it be as just friends. I really like this girl and I’ve had a crush on her for a year, and I basically have two questions. 1.) Do I just drop the crush and move on excepting the fact that we will probably only be friends ,or do I keep trying to get her to go out with me subtly ,because my friends are telling me to do that ,but that would also risk our great friendship even though band buddies are forever? 2.) How do I act with a girl on a "friend date", I’ve only been on date dates, I don’t know how much I dance with her or anything. I’m paying for her to get in and I’m probably going to spend the entire night with her ,and when I see her I’m probably going to be speechless because she looked amazing ,so how deep is the compliment supposed to go? How much do I dance with her? and Do I keep trying to persue her?

She keeps asking him to movies,plays,dances at her church & such,and I honestly don’t feel comfortable with it. He REALLY wants to hang out with her,but something about it just doesn’t feel right. He gets upset or mad when I ask him not to go. He hasn’t gone out on a "friend date" with her yet,but he’s still pushing it on me. Am I wrong to tell him that I feel extremely uncomfortable about this and that I don’t want him to go?

What does it mean if my guy friend asked me if I want to go to dinner with him, on a "friend date"?

Ok, I like my best friend a lot ( a girl ) and we occasionally talk on the phone and see eachother at school everyday basically and next week it’ll be the first "friend-date" we will have. Well before I go on this date I would like to say some really sweet things to her so maybe I can win her while we’re at the movies so…

Need some good sweet things to say! Ty :]

Okay here’s the deal. My brother friend is interested in me, and im interested in him. But because of this "dumb" male code we can’t really date. Unless of course he gives us "Permission". So long story how do i get my brother to approve of us dating. We’re all around the same age. He’s not a bad guy. I just need to know what to say to my brother.

My friend’s coming back to the City so we’re going out Thursday night strictly as friends, but I’m not sure what to do?
Is a mall too boring? Is a movie too "datey"? Is a restaurant too short? I really can’t think of anything to do with her.

My friend did not send the original msg & I did not send it to anyone but it appears that everyone on my contact list received it! What are my further risks? What do I need to do?

Straight to the point…more of an acquaintance broke up with this girl a month ago…they were together for about 4 months…he’s good friends with my friends but not that close with me and ill be ok if he doesnt wanna talk to me any more…is it really that f’ed up of me to start talking to this girl???

I have been seeing this guy for 2 years. We used to see each other 5 -6 times per week and now about four. He recently moved and has a female room mate. He still comes and stays with me for the night but I am a little concerned. I know there are Frid or Sat nights that he goes out with friends and other times with me. Sometimes he would even come with me to some boring work social events that I need to attend. We know we can count on each other for anything but..is he a friend or more?