Me and the girl have been friends for 5 years and really good friends for 2 years. I asked her to the dance and she asked for some time to think about it. The next day she said she would go with me but could it be as just friends. I really like this girl and I’ve had a crush on her for a year, and I basically have two questions. 1.) Do I just drop the crush and move on excepting the fact that we will probably only be friends ,or do I keep trying to get her to go out with me subtly ,because my friends are telling me to do that ,but that would also risk our great friendship even though band buddies are forever? 2.) How do I act with a girl on a "friend date", I’ve only been on date dates, I don’t know how much I dance with her or anything. I’m paying for her to get in and I’m probably going to spend the entire night with her ,and when I see her I’m probably going to be speechless because she looked amazing ,so how deep is the compliment supposed to go? How much do I dance with her? and Do I keep trying to persue her?

I was dating this one guy, who I will call Z. My "friend" at the time, S, broke us up because he wanted to go back out with Z. I don’t know what to do right now and I’m so hurt because of it.

She keeps asking him to movies,plays,dances at her church & such,and I honestly don’t feel comfortable with it. He REALLY wants to hang out with her,but something about it just doesn’t feel right. He gets upset or mad when I ask him not to go. He hasn’t gone out on a "friend date" with her yet,but he’s still pushing it on me. Am I wrong to tell him that I feel extremely uncomfortable about this and that I don’t want him to go?

i still like my ex sooo much. and she knew. what should i do. plz give me good advice. im in a terrible position. i feels like my whole life is just going down the tube. *HELP ME*

What does it mean if my guy friend asked me if I want to go to dinner with him, on a "friend date"?

Alright. Me and my ex had a great little romance for two weeks last summer. His name was Cameron. Were also both in high school. Anyway, what happened was he was trying to kiss me for the first time and I wasnt feeling it. I said "Maybe when it feels right" and then He left walking away……embarrased. He ignored me. And when I tried to get him back he also ignored me. Turns out, he found another girl. Another girl who WOULD kiss him. Anyway, he still had feelings for me because a month later he called my brother freaking out. Wondering if I was dating this guy……Billy Mahoney. Now, my ex knew that I had a big crush on him and when I put on my Facebook that I was in a relationship I guess he saw that and ASSUMED that I was dating Billy Mahoney. Anyway, I messaged my ex and said "why do you care who Im dating" and He said "I dont my friends wanted to know" and in a nutshell I said "bullshit, youre a short and ugly and an asshole" then he said in a nutshell "wow. Ive hit puberty and youre the one whos ugly etc etc etc" and it was just a nasty ugly stupid fight. And in the end, my ex said "and my friends just wanted to know so they could make fun of billy for dating YOU" So, we were in a huge fight for about 3 months. Talking shit about each other in school. Glaring at one and other. All of that silly stuff. But, then something happend. We just stopped being angry with each other. I knew for a fact he still cared about me. He would alway look at me from the corner of his eyes in hallways and I knew he still cared. Then we started being more friendly. And he started riding his bike near my house and staring at me and laughing at my dumb jokes. He started paying attention to me. Well, flashfoward……LAST WEEK. So, now we had been talking more and more and he made it completely obviousis he was into me. And he I told him how his ex gf was in love with him and he said something like "well too bad for her" and I messaged him on Facebook telling him to not to make fun of his ex gf since she was still in love with him and he said "haha ok but what about u huh…lets get together huh" and I said "haha oh yeah" and he said "no seriously lets get togher" and I said "well we shoud do something about this" and he said "U should come over" But I wasnt allowed. So, he came over my house the next day and we made out and had a good time and he ALSO ADMITTED TO LYING ABOUT THE WHOLE BILLY MAHONEY THING. It was a great reuniting. For about a week it was great. We madeout all the time and there was a lot of chemistry between us. But then, the day before spring break….I did something wrong. I started flirting with Billy Mahoney. I flirted with him the WHOLE BUS RIDE. I payed no attention to Cameron. It was truly an accident. Well, I messged Cameron and I told him I was grounded and couldnt hang out and he IGNORED ME. I couldnt belive it. Then the next day I said "Do you not want to hang out today because I totally could" and he said "Im not home and my phone was dead so chill Im not mad and my parents are home" and I said "ohhhh I see" and he said "ya" and tht was pretty much the end of that little conversation. I messaged him again a day later asking if he wanted to come over. NO REPLY. So, now its been two days and I havent tried to talking to him. I just dont know what to do. The only reason I can think of this sudden period of ignoring me is because I flirted with Billy on the bus. I also know for a fact that Cameron admires Billy. I can just tell. But guys please help me….WHAT SHOULD I DO? AND WHY DO YOU THINK HE IS IGNORING ME?

I loved my ex very, very much. He broke up with me a couple months ago after we dated for a year and a half, and my very good friend of ten years if it was okay with me if she dated him. I told her it would really hurt me, and she did it anyway. They broke up after a week, and he begged me back. He broke my heart again, then the "friend" told me she rejected him when he asked her out AGAIN, and yet here they are at school, dating. It kills me. Neither of them understand why I’m upset; he keeps making excuses, and she’ll make me look like the bad guy just for being upset. How do I get over this? We have the same friends, and since I have a class with the former friend, I feel obliged to be nice to her. She thinks I’m fine with it because of that.
But that’s the thing, it’s not all in the past. I still have to see the disgusting couple.

Ok, I like my best friend a lot ( a girl ) and we occasionally talk on the phone and see eachother at school everyday basically and next week it’ll be the first "friend-date" we will have. Well before I go on this date I would like to say some really sweet things to her so maybe I can win her while we’re at the movies so…

Need some good sweet things to say! Ty :]

well okay my friend was messing around with this one guy last year, he and i never talked, but this year i have him for a class and well were into each other. is it bad if i start dating him.? i mean i know she used to like him but its not like they were together right.???
well it didn’t end badly..they just stopped talking..no he’s not a jerk he’s really nice.

There’s this really cute guy in my class, and we’re close friends. There’s never for me to tell him that I have a huge crush on him, because I’ve been way too scared. But, on his Facebook, I found an online T-shirt saying "I love Casey" (by the way, it’s not my name), and there’s some pictures of her. They’re not extremely close, in fact, they aren’t friends or enemies. But they tease each other all the time. I’m pretty sure that he likes her, but he really can’t tell how I’m mooning over him. The good thing is, we have done some "study dates" together and gone to the movies a few times, but he never really paid much attention to the possibilty of us as a couple. She doesn’t even know him, but this guy and I grew up together in Russia, moved away, then got reunited, here in America, and we know ALMOST every thing about each other ( notice I capitalized the almost). And, the very WORST thing is, there’s a spring dance coming up in late March. Yesterday, Casey asked him if he was available for the dance. He replied:"Yeah, I’m saving it for a VERY special girl, starts with a C. You guess." Luckily, he wasn’t smiling and didn’t wink at her. That girl could be me, my name is Carina (Candice in America, not Caren), but I’m starting to have doubts, starting when he tweeted "Hanging out with Casey. Very unique and SPECIAL. wink wink, nudge nudge." Then, he blew off our Friends Night to "help" Casey with math (she gets straight A’s in math), and all five of us were so annoyed. Do you think he likes me? Or that girl? Really, she cares so much about fashion and she’s almost broke, not me, I just dress in whatever is comfortable and won’t look really wierd.. The fact that my family has a summer home in Cape Cod and can afford two maids has really tipped her off, and sometimes I think she flirts with him just to keep him away from me. Please tell me what I should do, except for telling him my feelings. Is it me or her? I’m starting to think that this relates to Taylor Swift’s You Belong to Me.
Sorry this is so long. Details are important. And so is the truth.

Okay here’s the deal. My brother friend is interested in me, and im interested in him. But because of this "dumb" male code we can’t really date. Unless of course he gives us "Permission". So long story how do i get my brother to approve of us dating. We’re all around the same age. He’s not a bad guy. I just need to know what to say to my brother.

I’ll repost… My original question was not posted in its entirety.

OK… This is a complex scenario, so I’ll do my best to abridge the details for brevity’s sake. I’m seeking advice regarding my girlfriend (24) of four months and myself (23).
We began dating about four months ago when we started working together. I knew her casually and always had a little crush on her. She was with some loser who I helped send packing. It took my help and a court order for him to move out before things were acceptable for us to start dating "officially". she was with him for five years and they share a mutual group of friends that she has very little to do with, save for maybe one person.
We’ve had a bit of conflict regarding this ex intermittently throughout our time together. She went to counseling for some "anger issues" at the beginning which I later found out she also used to help determine whether or not she wanted to reunite with this ex (hereafter referred to as "X"). He stopped by the house a couple times making it necessary to tell him to leave, but then things were relatively quiet until last night.
One of X’s friends called her last night and told her that X needed to speak with her and it sounded urgent. She called him back while I was listening and asked if he and "everyone" was ok (The group). He said everyone was fine and then proceeded to give a pathetic monologue that covered all the cliches I could imagine ( I just wanted one last chance to tell you I want to be with you, He’ll never love you like I do, etc). She became visibly upset, told him it wasn’t right for them to be discussing that with me there (Which made me wonder how the conversation would have gone were I not present) and that she’s with someone she loves and can’t be with him.
That settled my questions as to whether or not to move in with her right now and I told her as much. It helped shape my decision to wait for us to move in together rather than doing it now. I was genuinely intrigued and thought it was quite informative to see that he can still get a rise out of her like that. We’ve already discussed our future together and it’s been established that this is not a passing thing and that we take each other seriously.
My question is, am I wrong for being upset that she gave him ten minutes of her time to his pathetic attempt to beg her back into his life?
I truly love her and want to build a future with her, but my concern is that she still harbors feelings for him. When I expressed my concerns, she told me that they were together for five years and that she can’t just not care. I am in need of any advice, opinions, or similar situations anyone has gone through… Anyone?

At the end of the year we have a dance called the semi formal.
You cant in invite girls or guys from other schools its just an 8th grade thing. My best friend Eric is dating a girl from another school so he cant take her of course. Before they even started dating we talked about going as friends. Trust me were like bff! haha! My "friend" sonja asked him to the semi 4 days agoo afterI told her i wanted to go with himm.. what the heak!
hee said yess and i talked to him and he said he totaalyy forgot about even talking to me.. What should i say to her. theres more to the storyy shes just beining a major backstabber.
what do i say to her?!!?
I reallyy want to go with him.!! So so so so badd!
And all the other guyss are blahh!
But he iss stuck between a hard place… because he obviously said yes to her. I thoughtt why not all three of us go as friends! me and eric said yay!! but sonja said noo shes beining horribblee…
help thankss

My friend’s coming back to the City so we’re going out Thursday night strictly as friends, but I’m not sure what to do?
Is a mall too boring? Is a movie too "datey"? Is a restaurant too short? I really can’t think of anything to do with her.

She has recently told me that this is just a love for a good friend but I usually don’t think of good guy and lady friends saying that they love each other. I would like to think that she still has feelings for me somewhere deep.
I unfortunately may have destroyed the friendship though. I sent her an american greetings card via the mail including a poem of what I thought of her, a day later called her up and asked her if I could go out on a "date" with her and if there was anything I could do to tell her that I was sorry. She said "no" to both, so in my panic like many do after a breakup I sent her an email asking her to reconsider the "date" idea. I one day later sent her an ecard telling her that I was sorry and that deep down inside I still wanted to be just friends and nothing more even if it appeared that I did want more.
Yes I know I was pushy, I don’t need to be reminded of that, but I think I may have destroyed the friendship and any possible chance of reuniting