I’m a good girl – not easy but easygoing, can get along w. everyone and old fashioned in love. I’m going through this phase where i’m "jaded" right now (went through a situation a few months back) and am in no mood for guys right now. I’m not biter, I’ve moved on, i’m happy to be single & just want to take time for myself and it’ll be awhile ’til i become "close" and care for someone again. No relationships anytime soon.

My friend asked me to go on this date w. her co-worker. First off, "who is this? what’s his name? what’s he like?" I’m not a fan of "blind dating" and why would I go out w. someone I know nothing about. All she said was he was "nice". I’m sorry but "nice" isn’t going to cut it anymore b/c everyone is nice. I told her to jsut bring him to our get togethers and i’ll meet him there. I got there and this was this same guy, she tried to set me up w. a few months back. She knew he wasn’t my type and right away, I knew still wasn’t. He’s a cool guy but I wouldn’t date him. Now he’s texting me and I was cautious of that too b/c he seems more into me than I am of him and I don’t want to lead him on. He wants to take me to go to dinner "as friends" but we all know that that’s just an excuse to get closer until he gets what he wants…me lol And a guy won’t work that hard to be "friends" w. a girl. Now he’s all "bobby brown" on me w. texting (like raunchy) and it’s gross. My friend said he thinks "i’m hot" and tht I should go out w. him to get free dinner. NO WAY. I’d rather take MYSELF out to dinner and pay. I MAY BE SINGLE AND LONELY SOMETIMES BUT I’M NOT DESPERATE. Even guys scan out other girls REALLY well to see if she’s good enough for their friends, why can’t girls be the same? I know she means well but it’s an insult to me bc he’s not even my type and she keeps throwin the "friends" excuse and now i gotta deal w. this horny dude on my own. And it’s different between me and her b/c he WORKS w. her so of course, they’re gonna be friends.

Do you think I’m being a *****? What should I do and how do I handle this dude?
I told my friend straight up but she assures me he just wants to be "friends" and "he’s not like that" (my ***) I, however, don’t trust him b/c honestly, A GUY DOESN’T WORK THAT HARD TO BE "FRIENDS" W. A GIRL HE FINDS "BOMB", RIGHT?
he’s been texting since my friend gave him my #. If I text back right away all eager, he’ll take our "getting to know each other as friends" as "talking". So i’m being "real" w him right now. Not interested so not gona respond right away, i’ll do it later

Feel free to participate and just label yourself 1 2 or 3. Thanks in advance to those that participate.

1.I’m on here giving my honest answers to serious questions with the understanding that most serious questions can not be answered in one post and rely heavily on the information provided by the poster.
2.I’m on here giving one straightforward answer on what I believe is the way even though I know there are other possibilites to the scenario. I know the answer from my own experience.
3.I’m on here just fooling around not giving any serious thought because i’m bored or want to have fun.

i want a site that gives you your own webpage- upload more that 10 photos at least–other fun stuff that im not used to is what im expecting too– ive really only used the friend finder site-and that site is really restrictive– i want to hear music when im chatting too–chat rooms that arent necessarily adult but how about people i can talk to on a more realistic level not so "date" or "singles" minded but not like single topic rooms like politics or games stuff like that– how about cool stuff like whats the coolest site youve been to lately and where are some good music sites that are easy to check out without having to fill out a bunch of stuff to check out the site and find that you don’t like it-or its hard to use and i want to be able to post video clips too —thanks to anyone who is willing to answer my post –and i promise to give back and do some answer also –sincerely art(gamezilla2005)

I have heard that some singles find it easier to meet people on social networking sites because there is less attention to the "dating" focus than the free online dating sites.

Wondering if you’ve had the same experiences or have an opinion about this topic.

ok,………….well i notice that many people put up questions that involve them liking a certain person. When they ask this question, many of you put "tell them how you feel."

now…..does that really help (or works), or do you do it for the free 2 points?