I’m a 32-year-old, heterosexual male who is single:
I am a subscribed/paid membership, totaling to at l e a s t 0.00 per month, to the following Internet ‘dating’ sites to “ ‘find’/‘look’/‘seek’ for a ‘love’ mate and experience mutual ‘love’ with this person”:
1. Yahoo.com
2. Match.com
3. True.com
4. Eharmony.com
5. Chemistry.com
6. FriendFinder.com
7. Passion.com
8. BigChurch.com
9. MySpace.com
I place/post photo(s) of myself on my personal ad/profile for each of the websites listed above.
After I read the match’s personal ad/profile, I write and send a different email to each ‘match’ for initiating contact with peer-aged match (the woman or women).
However, I constantly experience that the ‘matched’ person(s)— the peer-aged women–; regardless of race/ethnicity, regardless of her photo or none on her personal ad/profile; that the peer-aged Women do selectively eliminate me– they do n o t reply to any of my email(s) I sent– as potentially being her either platonic friend or amorous/romantic partner based upon h e r preference selection of "Her Ideal Person’s" traits, such as:
1) Height,
2) Race/ethnicity
3) ‘Body type’, and
4) Income/Occupation.
A. What is going on with the Online Internet ‘Dating’/"Personal Ad" craze/fad or ‘thing’– "Woman seeks Man"/"Man
seeks Woman"? ? ?
B. Where are the real Woman; n o t the Woman who are fake/’flakes’ or n o t those that are " teasers of
written/worded Personal Ads/Profiles, photos, and such)” ? ? ?
I’m a good girl – not easy but easygoing, can get along w. everyone and old fashioned in love. I’m going through this phase where i’m "jaded" right now (went through a situation a few months back) and am in no mood for guys right now. I’m not biter, I’ve moved on, i’m happy to be single & just want to take time for myself and it’ll be awhile ’til i become "close" and care for someone again. No relationships anytime soon.
My friend asked me to go on this date w. her co-worker. First off, "who is this? what’s his name? what’s he like?" I’m not a fan of "blind dating" and why would I go out w. someone I know nothing about. All she said was he was "nice". I’m sorry but "nice" isn’t going to cut it anymore b/c everyone is nice. I told her to jsut bring him to our get togethers and i’ll meet him there. I got there and this was this same guy, she tried to set me up w. a few months back. She knew he wasn’t my type and right away, I knew still wasn’t. He’s a cool guy but I wouldn’t date him. Now he’s texting me and I was cautious of that too b/c he seems more into me than I am of him and I don’t want to lead him on. He wants to take me to go to dinner "as friends" but we all know that that’s just an excuse to get closer until he gets what he wants…me lol And a guy won’t work that hard to be "friends" w. a girl. Now he’s all "bobby brown" on me w. texting (like raunchy) and it’s gross. My friend said he thinks "i’m hot" and tht I should go out w. him to get free dinner. NO WAY. I’d rather take MYSELF out to dinner and pay. I MAY BE SINGLE AND LONELY SOMETIMES BUT I’M NOT DESPERATE. Even guys scan out other girls REALLY well to see if she’s good enough for their friends, why can’t girls be the same? I know she means well but it’s an insult to me bc he’s not even my type and she keeps throwin the "friends" excuse and now i gotta deal w. this horny dude on my own. And it’s different between me and her b/c he WORKS w. her so of course, they’re gonna be friends.
Do you think I’m being a *****? What should I do and how do I handle this dude?
I told my friend straight up but she assures me he just wants to be "friends" and "he’s not like that" (my ***) I, however, don’t trust him b/c honestly, A GUY DOESN’T WORK THAT HARD TO BE "FRIENDS" W. A GIRL HE FINDS "BOMB", RIGHT?
he’s been texting since my friend gave him my #. If I text back right away all eager, he’ll take our "getting to know each other as friends" as "talking". So i’m being "real" w him right now. Not interested so not gona respond right away, i’ll do it later
You can read my personal blog entry here: shesofly.com Until some of you learn to be satisfied with being by yourself, you’ll never find comfortability with a man. Nothing more to say about anything. Just visit www.missjia.com and stuff
Assume that you know that he is married.
Would you stalk him to find out where he lived.
Do you think it is exciting to do something that is forbidden?
