Is my girlfriend a cheater?
I met this girl through an online dating site, and we met up. We have had a great relationship for the last 3 months — we never fight, she introduces me to her friends, she publicly acknowledges that I’m her boyfriend.
I am leaving to go back to school in the next state in a week, so we won’t be able to be together as much. One of my friends found her profile on that dating site (she never took it down, just changed it to show that she wasn’t single and wasn’t looking) and talked to her online. He asked if she was really "not single" or "not looking" and she said yes. He asked why and she said that she had a guy that she had been talking to for awhile, but it was nothing serious. So then he asked if it was her boyfriend, or just a guy she was talking to, and she said "no he’s not my boyfriend he’s just a guy I talk to."
Well, my friend then told me about this.
Question is, how should I handle this? I called her last night and asked her if we were serious and she said yeah of course we are. I want to confront her but at the same time she didn’t really do anything wrong except say that she didn’t have a boyfriend, which is a lie. How should I confront her about it to where she can’t cover it up and can’t make any excuses or lies to get out of it?
More importantly, how do I confront her without ruining the relationship? Everything is GREAT between us, except for this one thing now….
Edit: I just called her and she said that yeah there are no problems in our relationship, as far as she knows.